Settling your child into nursery...

Starting nursery is a big milestone—for both children and parents! It’s exciting, nerve-wracking, and filled with new experiences. If you’re feeling a little anxious about how your child will adjust, you’re not alone. But what if we approached this transition through the lens of curiosity?

The Curiosity Approach to early childhood education encourages a child-led, exploratory learning environment that nurtures independence, creativity, and confidence. By using this philosophy at home and during the settling-in period, you can help your child embrace nursery as a space for discovery rather than uncertainty.

1. Embrace the Wonder Together

Children are naturally curious, so frame nursery as an exciting adventure. Instead of saying, “You have to go to nursery,” try, “I wonder what you’ll discover today?” This small shift helps children see nursery as a place of exploration rather than separation.

Try this: Before starting nursery, explore new environments together—a local park, a friend’s house, or a library. This helps build confidence in navigating unfamiliar spaces.

2. Build Connection Before Separation

Relationships are key in the Curiosity Approach. Helping your child feel safe with their new caregivers is just as important as getting used to the environment.

Try this: Visit the nursery together and let your child observe and engage at their own pace. If possible, arrange playdates with other children attending the same setting to create familiar faces before the big day.

3. Encourage Independence Through Play

The Curiosity Approach values child-led learning, which means giving children the tools to explore and problem-solve independently. This can make the transition smoother as they feel empowered rather than dependent.

Try this: Encourage self-help skills at home—letting them put on their shoes, wash their hands, or choose their clothes. Small moments of independence build confidence in a nursery setting.

4. Create a ‘Goodbye Ritual’

Transitions can be tricky, but a consistent, comforting farewell routine can provide reassurance. Keep goodbyes short, positive, and predictable.

Try this: A special handshake, a hug followed by a wave at the window, or a fun phrase like “See you soon, my little explorer!” can make goodbyes smoother.

5. Trust the Process (and Your Child!)

Every child settles in at their own pace. Some run in without looking back, while others take more time to feel secure. Both are okay! Trust that your child is learning resilience, and know that the nursery staff are experienced in helping children feel at home.

6. What to bring...

Make sure your child has lots of spare clothes for nursery as they will need them! Also, bring sun hats, warm coats, gloves etc depending on the weather. You are also welcome to bring comforters that your child uses at home and formula milk if your child needs it.

Try this: Reflect on your own emotions, too. Children pick up on our feelings, so staying calm and positive will reassure them that nursery is a safe and happy place.

Final Thoughts

The transition into nursery isn’t just about adjusting to a new routine—it’s about opening a world of wonder, discovery, and growth. By fostering a spirit of curiosity, you can help your child see this new chapter as an exciting journey rather than a daunting change.

So take a deep breath, embrace the adventure, and watch your little one flourish!